Friday, January 9, 2009

Good Deed #5- Compassion for Strangers

"Sharon" was one of the three people who came by last night to see the rental unit. She had arrived early, and was very apologetic for doing so. During her showing, Sharon disclosed that she is moving to an apartment due to a pending separation/divorce from her husband of 28 years.

Sharon is rightfully concerned, and somewhat afraid of what the future holds. She hasn't lived alone in over two decades, her family is unaware of her pending decision, and she has not a single possession to call her own. A quiet despair can be seen in her light green eyes.

She has no clue where to begin...

I have been through difficult times, alone, and with support. The difficult times with the support of friends and family have always been easier to bear. Because Sharon is enduring this transition in secrecy, she is alone.

I decided to offer her not only a kind ear, but reassurance that we would help her with whatever she may need. We will help her move, select and find furniture, introduce her to her neighbors, and walk her through every step she's about to take.

Regardless of whether or not the owner selects her as a tenant, I'm going to make a point to make good on my offers. She has enough to deal with, and if a little kindness and compassion provides her with a little comfort, I think her outlook on the future will be a more positive one.

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